ETHEL HALVERSON PATTERSON

Highlights of Ethel's life which she referred to as "basic to my recipes for living":  I was born on March 18, 1920 in Fayette County, Iowa, near the little town of Alpha.  I attended schools at Alpha, Hawkeye and West Union.

My parents, Elmer and Maude Halverson were farmers.  My mother was a school teacher, having received a teaching certificate from Cedar Falls Teachers College.  My parents raised a family during the worst of times- the 1920s and '30s.  This was called the Depression. My father lost his farm the same year that my little sister died at age three of rheumatic heart disease. Many times, in fact all the time, different members of the family took turns rocking her or pushing the baby carriage.  We did anything to keep her from crying because, if we let her cry, she would turn blue, which caused a rush to get her some air and smelling salts.

My parents were very active in the little Alpha Methodist Church.  My father was Sunday School superintendent, and my mother taught  Sunday School. Many times my brothers, sisters and I were  loaded  into the sleigh or cutter  during the cold winter  Sundays and covered  over with blankets  and something I remember  as being like a bear skin rug.

After my parents lost the farm, we moved to different rental farms, which always meant changing schools.   Ten years after my little sister died, my parents and our family were subjected to another death as my 21-year-old brother and his best friend were killed in an automobile accident.   This was something my parents never did get over.  My brother was the pride of the family and much loved by the whole community.

I graduated from West Union High School in 1939 and enrolled in Pre-Nursing at Coe College in Cedar Rapids.   After the first year, I transferred to Upper Iowa University in Fayette and continued my science major in Pre-Nursing. That is where I met my future husband, J.D. (or, as everyone called him, “Pat”) Patterson.  I enrolled at the University of Iowa School of Nursing while Pat was coaching and teaching at Oxford Junction.

Soon the war broke out; he enlisted in the Navy Construction Battalions. He went overseas soon after, and I tried to continue my nurse's training, which wasn’t easy. It was hard to concentrate on studies with the war going on and him being overseas.  As a result, after my first year of training, I transferred back to Upper Iowa where I got my Bachelors Degree in science and got a job teaching science at Anamosa High School  I taught  freshmen  and sophomores for a few months until Pat came home from overseas.

We were married on October 9, 1944, at West Union in the Methodist Church.   A few months later he was assigned to Port Hueneme Naval Base and I resigned my job at Anamosa to go to California to live with him. On September 4, 1945 our oldest son, Randy was born in the Navy Hospital.  Not long after that, the war with Japan was over and we were able to return to Iowa.

Pat taught at Ridgeway, Iowa for a semester and then was contacted to apply at Osceola high school, which he did, and we moved to Osceola in July, 1946. He coached football, basketball and baseball along with taking care of the duties of Athletic Director. In July of 1948 we bought the Four Corner Food Market on Main Street, where the Standard Oil Station is now located. In 1950 we built a new grocery store east of the intersection of highways 34 and 69. This was also the year our second child, Kristy, was born and we bought Emma Allen's house on Park Street, which we still own and have as a rental property.

From the time we bought the grocery store in 1948, Pat and I worked as partners in the grocery business and later in the motel business. I did my best also to raise our family. We had our last child, Jeffrey, in 1955.

All three children graduated from colleges in Iowa - Randy from Simpson in Indianola, Kristy from Iowa State in Ames, and Jeff from the University of Iowa. Jeff now lives in Tacoma, Washington; Randy lives in West Des Moines; and Kristy lives in Des Moines with her husband, Robb, a Mechanical Engineer who has his own consulting business, in which Kristy also works. Randy works at the Federal Building in the HUD offices, and his wife, Gloria, also works in the Federal Building, in the Veterans' Administration offices.

We raised our family and worked together until we sold the motel in 1972.   At that time we bought a farm east of town.   I didn't feel qualified to be of much help in that business, but Pat has enjoyed it a lot.

The most exciting events in our life were the births of our two grand-daughters. Vicki was born in 1971 and Laura in 1974 to Randy and Gloria. We love them dearly.  As of this writing, Vicki lives in California and works at Rockwell International, as an industrial engineer. She got her degree at Iowa State.  Laura, the younger, will graduate from the University of Iowa in May with a degree in psychology.  She plans to move to California and live with her sister while she looks for work or goes to graduate school.

Since 1980 I have had quite a few health problems. Just when I think I have them in check, something else happens.   In 1980 I had heart bypass surgery with five arteries bypassed. In 1987 I had a heart attack and underwent the balloon procedure; the following year I had to have three more bypasses. In 1989 I had a successful mastectomy. I have had no recurrence of the cancer.

In the fall of 1995 I had more heart problems. As a result the cardiologist put in a stent which helped open the affected artery. The summary is that I have had plenty of health problems but I have them all pretty well licked except for diabetes, which I will have the rest of my life unless something new is discovered. Pat has sold part of the farm and plans to sell more in the near future. This will mean that he doesn't have to work so hard, although he does enjoy working in the garden and doing lawn and yard work. He also plays golf two or three times a week. We are probably at the happiest time of our lives; certainly we are the most content. At our age we remember the verse from the book of Job, "Ancient in wisdom and in the length of days comes understanding."

                                    

J.D. "PAT" PATTERSON

I was born July 9, 1920 at Clinton, Missouri. My parents, Eldred and Eva Patterson, were farmers and had previously traded their farm in Fayette County, in northern Iowa, for a farm in the Clinton, Missouri area.  In these early days, farmers would often trade farms rather than have a lawyer prepare a land sales contract as is the practice today.

When I was old enough to understand, my folks related to me that they soon found out that their new tillable soil had what was called "hard pan" below the top soil.  The land looked great but the rains would not penetrate into the hard subsoil.  Probably, with today's high horse power tractors and sub-soilers, the land could have been made productive. By October, 1920 theyhad become discouraged with life in Missouri and moved to Sterling, in northeast Colorado, where my father's sister and other relatives lived.  This was dry land wheat country.  Farmers would, and still do, let the land lie fallow one year and plant wheat the next.  Land in the early years were very cheap as compared to 1997 prices.

The first two years my folks enjoyed good wheat crops.  The next few years turned into what was known as "dust bowl" times. As the future looked bleak in this wheat country and our existence was questionable, we moved to Fowler, Colorado to a nice, half-irrigated and half-dry land farm.

My grandfather died in 1925, the first year we were there; and my parents continued to operate his land.  The land we could not irrigate was natural "buffalo grass" and was pasture for the cows.  On the land under irrigation, we raised some wheat, corn, pinto beans, sugar beets and watermelons for seed.  The wheat and corn were fed to our hogs and chickens.  Mother always took care of the chicken flock.  The eggs served as food as well as cash to buy some of our groceries.  We usually had about ten cows to milk, which furnished the family butter and some cream to sell.

We received our irrigation water from the Arkansas River.  Each farm owned so many water shares, according to the size of the farm.  We were only allowed water for the land about every 12 days and then for only about 48 hours.  The head gate was padlocked and controlled by the water association, who in turn hired a man on horse-back to lock and unlock our allocation. My father would have to irrigate all night, using a lantern for light. It was very hard work.

Another back-breaking job was raising sugar beets. In the late '20's this required manual labor - without the benefit of tractors with front end loaders, electric motors, or hydraulics as we have today. The beets were planted rather thick in rows about 18" wide. When they were about 3" they would have to be thinned so that the plants were about 10" apart. This, too, was a veryhard and hot job. There was a Mexican settlement of several hundred people that lived in our small town of Fowler. The families were hired to thin, hoe, and cut the leaves off the plants after they were lifted from the soil by means of a horse-drawn beet puller. After topping they were put in large piles. The fanner then had to load the beets by hand and they were taken by rail car on to the refinery.

There were four children in our family. My older brother, Roy, had graduated from high school in 1930.  He helped with the farm and then went back to Fayette County in northeast Iowa, where some of our relatives lived.  I recall that he had a job with the telephone company, digging the holes for poles by hand.  They had to be over 6' deep.  Roy enlisted in the Marine Corps early in World War II and attained the rank of captain.  He was later married to the movie star, Paula Raymond.  Both are now deceased.

I have an older sister Hazel, 80 years of age, and a widow, who lives in Denver, Colorado. She and I often recall when we were kids and she hit me in the forehead with a garden hoe.  I still have the scar.  I have since forgiven her.

A younger brother, Lloyd, and I had many good times together.  We made our own weapons of destruction- "sling shots", "bow and arrow missiles", "beanies that propelled rocks", etc. Lloyd was in Law Enforcement (Iowa Highway Patrol) until he retired.  He, too, is now deceased.

In the late '20's, the big depression was starting to affect all families.  As it continued into the early '30's, banks were closing their doors and people lost their money. Farmers lost their farms because there was no demand for their crops or livestock. Money was very scarce.  Loans could not be paid.

I remember the President Herbert Hoover years, the election of President Franklin Roosevelt and the "New Deal" which was to salvage our economy. Our neighbor had a radio that was powered by what was called a "B" battery. He invited our family to listen to the election returns. We were too poor to subscribe to a daily newspaper for Colorado and world news.

However, my father did find enough money to buy malt and the other ingredients to make home brew (beer).  I will always remember the process from mixing the recipe to the bottling. As I recall, the fermentation process took about two weeks.  The container was a large crock with a lid. This was placed in an attic room, which was always warm.  When the brew was ready, it was my mother's and grandmother's job to do the bottling. The bottles were sterilized and the caps squeezed on with a hand lever that sealed the beer. To get the beer into the bottles, they used a small rubber hose and, by mouth, Grandmother would start the beer flowing into each bottle.  My mother would run the capping machine. There was a little humor to the story. At the end of the bottling, Grandmother was always a little "tipsy." She was a great person and we often laughed at her performance.

My parents loved to dance.  Dance halls were common in Colorado.  The folks usually went to a dance several times a month. Square dancing with a "caller" was very popular. Mother and father were very graceful waltzing, which was their favorite style of dancing.  There were many barn dances which would be unique in this day and age.  Music was often times furnished by a small band.  I recall a special friend of ours who played the accordion for dances.  The folks also had a Brunswick Record Player that played the old 78 RPMs and had to be wound by hand.  This was a source of enjoyment for all the family.

A downside to the dances was that my father invariably would come home in a drunken state.  He always got very sick and I recall him invariably telling my mother, "Never again;" but his promises usually lasted only until the next time.  Father and my older brother would probably be considered as semi-alcoholics. It was a blessing for me as I saw what liquor had done to them. I made up my mind that this would never be part of my life and I am proud of my conviction.

Another incident happened to me when I was about 12 years of age.  My older brother smoked cigarettes, cigars, chewed plug tobacco- the whole works. I recall one afternoon when I was to cultivate corn with horses and cultivator. I asked my brother for a Camel cigarette to smoke while I was working. He said to take the entire package and enjoy.  I accepted his generosity and headed for the cornfield.  I smoked one, two, three and then my vision seemed to see strange things.  I'm sure the corn plants were fewer in numbers. I lost my dinner, not once but several times. I didn't know how I could feel so bad and still be alive. This was a favor my brother did for me.  I promised myself to never again take a puff from a cigarette or use any other form of tobacco.  We form habits early in life and these experiences have been part of my recipe for living.

Another character builder for me was my experience with the Boy Scouts of America. A neighbor boy my age belonged to the Fowler Boy Scout Troop. One evening he invited me to attend a meeting with him. I wanted to join and my parents gave their approval. I remember the challenges that went with earning a merit badge and my road to becoming a Star Scout.

The summer of 1932 our scout master and troop went on a week's trip to an area of the Rocky Mountains of southern Colorado. Our camp was located in the pine trees at the base of the Great Colorado White Sand Dunes.  The huge mountains of pure white sand looked like one of the "Wonders of the World."  It was fun to sleep in tents, cook our own food, do things that qualified us for another merit badge and eventually moved us up to another scout rank.

My early schooling that I recall best started in the 4th grade when I was nine years old. Our country school was in a nice brick building. It seemed very big at that time. Grades one through four were in the south side, library in the center, and grades five through eight were on the north side.  We rode a bus to and from school.  There were two lady teachers.  As a compliment to my 5th through 8th grade teacher, I consider that she was one of the best. She had discipline, taught us good work ethics, and in general was always in control of her students' progress.

Our building was heated by a large forced air furnace.  She would pay me 50-cents a week to shovel coal to the furnace several times a day. That was a lot of money to a kid during the Depression. For something to do at recess, the boys would play marbles, baseball basketball or dodge ball. As the patches of our overalls wore through, Mother would redo them.   We took our noon lunch in a metal pail. A typical sandwich was a fried egg, sometimes a fried pork chop (bone in), and a home-made cookie.  Life during the Depression years (1930-1934) were years of having nothing materially- that was a way of life; but it was also a great era for a person to build mental and physical fiber.  I am glad I lived during those simple and trying years.

Referring to family school years, we were amazed at my younger brother Lloyd's approach to school.  On more than a few occasions he would have a painful stomach ache about the time for the bus to pick us up.  Alas, he would have to stay home. It didn't take long for Mother to catch on that his recovery was always very quick, mainly as the bus drove out of sight.

In 1928 my father was able to buy a Model T Ford, four door automobile.  The car had to be hand-cranked to start.  If the spark lever was too far down, it had a wicked kick on your arm. Gas was 11-cents a gallon.  Movies cost 10¢ admission. Tom Mix and Buck Rogers were big western movie stars.  Popular songs were "Springtime in the Rockies" and "Oh That Strawberry Roan" (horse).   "Big Little Books" which were 4"x4"x3" thick sold for 5-cents each.  Today they are worth hundreds of dollars.  I wonder why I didn't keep a few!!!

I guess my interest in gardening started early.  One of my jobs was helping plant, hoe, and water the plants.  A big garden was an important source of our food.  My mother and grandmother would cut sweet com off the cob and let the sun dry it.  The air was always dry in Colorado.   They made hominy, canned tomatoes, made sauerkraut, pickled beets and cucumbers. I can still taste the big Black Diamond watermelons.  Our soil was sandy and melons had a real melon flavor.

My father did raise a few hogs each year.  In 1934 the market price for a large sow was 3¢ a pound.  We would butcher a hog once a year. Some meat was canned. Some was cooked and put in large crocks and hot lard was poured over the layers of meat. Lard was always plentiful. A common supper for our family often consisted of corn bread with cold milk over the top, or potato soup with dumplings and small pieces of pork

The Depression had taken its toll on my father.  He wanted to move back to Fayette County, Iowa, his and my mother's birthplace. Most of our relatives lived in and around Elgin, West Union and Wadena. My older brother and sister had returned there in 1933. We had a farmsale in late February, 1934.   Our personal property was transported in two truck loads to a farm we rented east of West Union, Iowa. My mother and grandmother rode in the cab with the driver. The truck had a covered top. A mattress and blankets served as a bed for my father, a good friend of the family, my younger brother and myself as we made the long trip to Elgin, Iowa. Being late February, needless to say, we were cold.  I can still smell the exhaust from the truck.

On the last trip, we pulled a four-wheel trailer which included my Shetland pony, Lindy, named after the famous flyer, Lindberg. Lindy was still with the family long after my younger brother claimed him.

I finished out my eighth grade year in a small one room white school house very close to our farm.  This was quite a step down from the school I left in Colorado. My first cousin was my teacher, who taught all eight grades. I was the only eighth grade student. Some of the students had to walk two miles to school each day.

In September, 1934, I enrolled as a freshman at Elgin High School which has now consolidated with Clermont to become Valley High. The boys all wore bib overalls, which fell out of popularity and now are seen worn by college students. I lived with my grandmother and grandfather Conner at Elgin, a small Swiss community.  My folks lived seven miles from Elgin and I would walk home on Saturday morning, help with the farm work, and walk back to Elgin before dark on Sunday afternoon.

I liked all my high school classes. One of my favorites was manual training, now referred to as Shop or Industrial Arts.  I still have several pieces of furniture that I made. The turning lathe was one of my favorite shop tools.

It was at Elgin High that I became interested in sports and wanted someday to become a high school athletic coach and teacher.  I earned twelve varsity letters, being very active in football, basketball and baseball. I played as an outfielder with the West Union Town Baseball Team during the summer. Most towns in northeast Iowa had a baseball team and leagues were common. Games were played on Sunday afternoons.

During the summer months of the years I was in high school helped my father with the farm.  We now lived on Grandfather Conner's farm, which consisted of more acres and we had more livestock. We milked (by hand) 25 cows twice a day.  Whole milk was put into a hand operated separator, cream was sold to the Elgin Creamery and skim milk was fed to our hogs. Field work was done with 12 head of horses.  Everything was done by hand - corn picked, oats shocked, hay put in the hay mow, etc.

This was the way of farm work in 1938.   Corn was planted with a wire check planter, which made it possible to cultivate one direction the first time and the opposite direction the second cultivation. Corn was cultivated one row at a time, walking behind a cultivator with the horse's reins around your shoulders and arms pushing down on the cultivator handles for penetration. It was hard work, but I am glad that I had the experience. It made me a stronger person both physically and mentally.  I believe hard work contributes to a person’s appreciation of success and strengthens our values.

In the fall of 1938, with the aid of an athletic scholarship, I enrolled as a freshman at Upper Iowa University, Fayette, Iowa. My mother was a strong supporter of my getting a college degree, even though we were not a wealthy family and it was not easy for my parents to finance my four years of college.

During my four years at U.I.U., I was active in football basketball and baseball.   For the first three years, I drove the 15 miles to college and back after practices.  At this time we had moved again to a larger farm northeast of West Union, Iowa and when I got home there were cows to milk and the other chores.

Sports have changed through the years.  Those were the days of the two-hand set shot in basketball.  Free throws were shot underhand. Uniforms and other protective devices have improved. For football we had leather helmets with no face guards, no mouth pieces, no rib pads, no elbow or knee braces.  We wore bulky high top shoes, pants, and jerseys. There were no specialty teams; we played both offense and defense. In spite of all that, my only major injury occurred during my senior year. A clipping, illegal block tore ligaments in my right knee. Through heat and treatment I was able to play the latter part of the football season on recovery.

I graduated June 1, 1942, with a Bachelor of Science degree, a major in biological science and minors in physical education and social sciences. However, World War II was on everyone's mind. Draft boards were calling the young men. I had signed a contract to coach and teach at Oxford Junction High School in a Bohemian community in eastern Iowa.  The Bohemian people are super people to work with.  I was only able to teach until Thanksgiving when I decided to enlist in the U.S. Navy Seabees.

I left for a training base at Norfolk, Virginia; next was a troop train ride for our 3rd USNCB Battalion, across the U.S. to Port Hueneme, California. We left from there on March 9 1943 aboard the troop ship U.S. Del Brazil carrying 4,000 men. Because of the Japanese submarines, we spent 23 days zigzagging across the Pacific Ocean, arriving at Espirito Santos in the New Hebrides Islands, close to northern Australia.  This would be our base for the next 18 months. The islands were owned by both the French and British.  There was mostly dense jungle vegetation with some coconut plantations worked by Tonkinese.  These were oriental people, very small in stature.  The men weighed, probably, less than 100 pounds and the women 60-65 pounds. They spoke a few words in English. There were also the large, black natives.

Our first job was to build Quonset huts for living quarters, a mess hall, post office, supply building, roads, etc.  These were priorities but we also unloaded supply ships. I remember our first housing was in tents and, as it rained almost every day and night, the water would run through the tents.  The mosquitoes were everywhere, constantly.  Our sleeping cots were covered with mosquito netting.

After setting up our base camp, there was need for recreational programs.  As an athletic coach I was assigned the job of organizing a recreational program for our battalion of 1,040 enlisted men, plus our complement of commissioned officers.  A large recreation Quonset hut was constructed. This was to be my work headquarters.  The building consisted of a library, a place where men could read and write V-mail letters to loved ones, ping pong tables, a record player, and a vast supply of all kinds of athletic equipment that could be checked out to the men and returned later.  I used to buy a large stock or bunch of bananas from the natives (their price was always one dollar).  We would hang the bananas in the "rec hall" for the men to help themselves.

We built our own regulation battalion basketball court - floor areas of compressed coral rock and lights for evening use.  We also built our own baseball and softball diamonds by bull­dozing out the jungle trees, vines and other vegetation.  It was also within my field to organize other recreation programs. We competed with other island units in ping pong matches, boxing smoker bouts and swimming meets in a fresh water swimming area that had been developed closeby. There was an open air movie theater with coconut logs to sit on.  All this was part of our recreation when off duty.

I enjoyed our hobby shop building which had several wood turning lathes.  Mahogany, yellow teak and Zebra trees were native to the South Pacific area. I still have several bowls and other items that I made from teak and mahogany.

After 18 months, our tour of duty overseas was completed.  Our battalion was replaced with another stevedore unit.  We left in September, 1944, aboard a large troop ship for the U.S.A. The second day at sea we experienced a huge tropical storm.  Rain and sea waves engulfed the ship.  All personnel had to stay below deck with hatches closed.  I don't remember anyone who wasn't seasick.  What a mess in the washroom areas!  Seeing and passing under the Golden Gate Bridge at San Francisco was an unbelievable experience.

It was now September.  I had a month's furlough and went home to Fayette, Iowa.  As Ethel has told, she and I had met at Upper Iowa University. We had become engaged in 1942, planning to spend the rest of our lives together, starting with my first leave of absence.  We were married October 9, 1944 at the First Methodist Church, West Union, Iowa.  At this time, Ethel was teaching science at the Anamosa High School.  I returned to the Naval Base at Oakland, California.

I will always remember a 24-hour pass, visiting the Hollywood Canteen, and getting autographs from Betty Grable, Alexis Smith, and Mary Brian, all famous movie stars.  Ethel let me keep the autographs.  I still have them.

My next move was to Camp Rousseau at Oxnard, California, for state-side duty, which most servicemen look forward to.  Ethel joined me a few weeks later and, together with another couple who were friends, we purchased a small two-bedroom house in a subdivision.  Ethel took a job at the Pacific Naval Air Base, which was part of Camp Rousseau.  This worked well for both of us as we could see each other every day.

I worked for a navy officer with the rank of Full Commander.  He was in charge of the base recreation programs.  Our office was in a large building at the main base entrance where servicemen could meet with their wives.  My job involved typing all office correspondence; issuing off-base liberty passes, selling Greyhound bus tickets, etc.  I also played on the naval base basketball and baseball teams.  I had the honor of meeting and shaking hands with the legendary Connie Mack, a baseball manager and Hall of Famer. I did enjoy this stateside duty.

In September, 1945, I received my honorable discharge from the Navy.  The war with Japan had ended with the dropping of the atomic and hydrogen bombs. My three years serving my country was a time to mature and an experience that takes place once in a lifetime. I was only 24 years old.  This became another recipe of my book of life.

Ethel and I had a son, Randy, born September 4, 1945, at the Camp Rousseau Naval Base Hospital.  We sold our Oxnard home and returned to Fayette, Iowa, in October, 1945. As I was anxious to return to coaching and teaching, I accepted the job opening at Ridgeway, Iowa, in January, 1946.  Ridgeway is a small town west of Decorah. I enjoyed the school where I coached boys' basketball and spring baseball teams.

In early June, 1946, Superintendent Larry Hagie of Osceola contacted me and, after a personal interview, I was hired as varsity boys' coach, physical education and science teacher. My contract entailed being head coach of football, boys' basketball and baseball, teaching natural science and also coaching the junior high boys on Saturdays. It's hard to believe that was 51 years ago. Some of my athletes still live in our area and we have a warm relationship.  Unfortunately, some have passed away.

During the summer months I painted houses for Louis Fisher and Ralph Evans (painting contractors). One dollar an hour was the going salary. Many people will remember the big wood frame Christian Church building that I helped paint.  The church burned to the ground in 1954.

I loved my coaching job at Osceola but found it difficult to exist and raise my family on $2,700 per school year. In early summer of 1948, Ethel and I had a chance to buy the Four Comer Food Market at the intersection of highways 69 and 34. We were fortunate that the store's meat cutter, Claude Eggers, had been with the store for years and was a big help to our inexperience.

During the 13 years in the grocery business, as a registered football and basketball official, I officiated games throughout southern Iowa. Fern Underwood's husband, Clifford, and I often worked together. I recall a basketball game we worked at Chariton. Sometime, in the course of the evening, some Chariton fans had let the air out of all four of my tires and taken the valve stems. The Chariton coach helped us find a service station man to fix our problem.

I also recall Darrell Swan, who was the Russell, Iowa, basketball coach and player on their town team, calling me to officiate a game. I had worked a number of high school games for Darrell over the years. On that particular night the Russell Town Team had warmed up.  Came 7:30 game time and their opponent had not taken the floor. However, in a few minutes, out came the Des Moines version of the Harlem Globe Trotters with five tall, black players dressed in their famous flashy uniforms. It was an entertaining evening for the fans and we had a lot of fun.

Our daughter Kristy was born October 11, 1950.  Our second son Jeffrey joined our family on July 21, 1955.  As our grocery business grew we wanted a more modem and larger building. In 1950 we built the modern market building one-half block east of the four comers.  These were some of our best years as we grew as a family and as a business. Our oldest son helped us after school with many jobs that go with operating a food market.  Those were the days when stores delivered grocery orders for free.

By this time we could see that again we must have more square feet of space, we had a chance to sell the Four Comer Food Market to Wayne and Fern Shannon of Osceola.  The year was 1959.  We also had an opportunity to buy three lots just north of the four comer intersection. It was here that we built the Blue Haven motel-in 1959 the first six units, 1961 another nine units, 1964 four more units and the last six units in 1971.  The location proved to be ideal with traffic on highways 69 and 34.

The motel was a very interesting business, even if demanding. Ethel and I put in long hours as we ran the business ourselves. We had our own commercial laundry system, which was my job each day. Ethel ran the 24-hour switchboard, rented units, etc.  We had two maids to service the rooms. I learned to take care of most of the maintenance problems. But it gave us an opportunity to meet different people. Many rentals came from couples from Minnesota and Wisconsin on their way south for the winter and on their way home in the spring.  You mature and continue to grow as you meet a variety of interesting people.  Some of our guests included Conway Twitty and his musicians, a group from the Ladies' Professional Golf Association, twice the Oklahoma State Basketball College Team (Hank Iba was their coach).  The commercial men, however, were our steady customers.

We both took pride in and enjoyed the motel business, but by 1972 we began to feel the strain of its confining nature. We were on call 24 hours a day, which takes a toll mentally and physically. We had a chance to sell the Blue Haven Motel and, after much soul searching, we made the sale.  This was not an easy decision.

We were looking for a site to build a country home.  A farm east of East Lake Park was for sale and we liked the Highway 34 location.  The farm was purchased even though we decided not to build at this time. Eight years later we bought the Dr. Stroy property located at 820 South Jackson Street. This met our housing needs and we have enjoyed the location now for seventeen years.

As I had lived my early life on the farm I decided to operate the farm myself. I commute to and from our farm and have been a city farmer now for 25 years. I like the many challenges and the outdoor life of tilling the land and bringing in the crop.

In conclusion, I would like to have people think of me as a man who has had direction in his life, who has been firm but fair in dealing with his fellowman. I believe in having a plan for each tomorrow and to strive for perfection.  I am outgoing and try to have a sense of humor. When I met Ethel, 51 years ago, I had very little religious faith.  She and her family were Christian people.  I credit her with my present faith in making Jesus Christ a daily part of my life. We have been members and supporters of the Osceola United Methodist Church for 51 years.

 

 

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